Daughter has started wetting her pants during the day? I have a 3 and a half old daughter who has just started in the last two weeks wetting her pants continously throughout the day. Maybe 3 or 4 times a day, at school and at home. I have pull ups on her at night & she wets those too. Any ideas to help her stop as I am at stumps on what to do to help her. |
My daughter did the same thing...and she knew how to use the potty but did it anyway.So I stopped using the pull ups put her in some underwear and said"now if you wet these its really uncomfortable"...she wet them once or twice but because the underwear isn't absorbent she soon realized she hated the way that it felt and used the potty!So try getting rid of the pull ups.
I wish you luck! |
How do I get my 3 and a half year old to stop wetting her pants? She started doing this about 2 months ago and sometimes wets her pants 4 times a day. Sometimes I could tell she has to go but she always says she doesn't. So I end up forcing her to the bathroom , which I don't like doing, and she does go potty. Why is she telling me she doesn't have to go? |
My thought is that she is not telling you she has to go because it is something that she has control over. You are giving it more power by trying to force her. I would start off by checking with her doctor to rule out a bladder infection. Guyren often regress with new changes in their lives. Are there any new changes in her life (move, new school, family issues, stress)? If so, give her lots of extra love and support.
Don't let her know that you have and issue with this. If you insist, she will resist because she is in control. If you see that she has to go to the bathroom say “It looks like you need to use that bathroom” then walk away. When she has an "accident," don't give it much attention. Make sure she is in clothing that she can get on and off without help. Say "It looks like you need to change." She can remove her wet clothing, rinse them out, put them in a bag in the laundry, clean any wet area, and put on dry clothing. Don’t help her. It won't take her long to learn it is much easier to use the bathroom
Guyren will resort to having accidents in order to feel powerful. Help her to feel powerful in positive ways by saying thing like "You did that by yourself!" “You jumped super high” "You can run super fast!" "Look how high you can jump!" "You used so many colors on your painting." These phrases are great confidence boosters, are great ways for you to show love and attention, and great ways for her to feel powerful in a positive way. Hope this helps! Good luck! |
How to stop a 10 years old guy from wetting her pants? A guy i know has a bladder problem and also ADHD. She was having trouble to hold and didn't make it in the toilet. Kids were making fun of her. I asked her if her parents to bring diaper and extra pants in case of another accident. But she refused to wear diaper and think those are for babies. Any advise guys? |
| sounds like something is definitely troubling her, provided she is of at least average intelligence, or she has a medical problem such as a bladder infection. First I would suggest a visit to a dr, and then a visit to a licensed therapist. There is little anyone can do over the internet without knowing her full situation. |
How do i get my 2 year old to stop wetting in her pants during the day? ? she has been trained for 8 months and just started to wet her pants during the day. before she was doing very well. is this a natural regression or is there a problem? |
My son was potty trained at 2 1/2 and suddenly began having 'accidents' a few months later. I believe it was intentional because it was always during nap time - and it was often poop. He really seemed to enjoy us coming and tending to his poopy pants. Initially, because we really thought he was doing this intentionally, we were punitive. But that didn't help. So we set up an incentive plan. We went to Target and bought a cool, noisy car that he loved, and put it on the counter where he could see it. Then I made a little incentive chart and hung it on the fridge. Every day that he stayed dry and clean all day resulted in one sticker. Five stickers earned the car. The first day he pooped his pants again. After that, he went five days straight, earned his car, and never did it again - save for a very occasional accident (like once every few months).
If your daughter has some sort of physical issue, of course this won't help. But if she is just getting careless, perhaps it can help get her back on track. |
How can i stop my preschooler from wetting her pants in preschool? My 3 year old daughter just began preschool and she has been fully potty trained for about a year and a half. She has gone to preschool for about a week and she pees her pants every morning when she is there and then goes to the bathroom fine the rest of the day. We cannot figure out why. Can anyone help stop.this? |
| The pre school setting is a different environment and not the same as being at home. Arrange for the teacher to take her to the bathroom within the first hour of arriving. She'll be fine soon. |
How do u stop an 8y/o from wetting her pants? She has been to drs and they can find nothing wrong. Everyone says it's for attention, which I believe. An 'awards' system has been set up, and failed because when she doesn't get her way she wets her pants. She gets made fun of at school, but the school's no help, other than to suggest she wear an adult-type diaper. |
I had this problem when I was a guy, and my grandmother thought I was doing it for attention, I wasn't. My niece also has this problem she is also 8. She has a serious problem. Doctors told my mother there was no problem, and no one could find anything wrong, yet I kept doing it, no matter where I was. It was embarrassing and it hurt that people around me didn't believe me. the doctors never found anything wrong with me, and they haven't with my niece either. Sometimes it just happens. You need to be supportive and loving. How would you feel if it were you that was wetting your pants and no one believed you? Trust me it hurts! And she needs all the support she can get. I finally stopped on my own at about 12, but I will never forget the humiliation and pain I went through being teased and even spanked by my grandparents when my parents weren't around. There are a lot of doctors out there who may be able to help. Don't give up on her and don't blame her.
Good luck.
Make sure to tell her she's not alone.
There are others with the same problem and it will be ok :) |
My potty-trained toddler has recently started wetting her pants and odd places at home.What does this mean? She has been potty-trained well over a year and just in the past two weeks started wetting her pants quite often and just last night urinated in a box. Then today after she wet her pants again, I found her crouched down in a corner in her room and I think she was trying to poop in the corner. I don't know why she is doing this?!! |
| something in your home or family that has her upset. is there a new baby in the family or some changes in the home, someone staying there or visiting. check out the day care school or provider that takes care of her when you are not around. something or someone has gotten her upset......if a new baby is home, it might be she is jealous of the baby and wants attention... |
Our 5 year old is having occasional problems with wetting her pants We have a 5 Year old who has occasional problems with wetting her pants. It is not an everyday problem, it seems to happen when she's playing outside for an extended period of time. She comes inside and uses the bathroom then the next thing I know she has a dirty wet spot on her bottom. I think she just gets pre-occupied and waits to run in untill it's too late. I would like to solve this soon because she starts kindergaden in about a week. Any suggestions or advice?
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Get her into the habit of using the toilet before and after any playing activity.
Remind her that it's important that she asks herself every once in awhile when playing for a long time, "Do I have to go to the toilet"? To get her in this habit, ask her once in a while when doing activities...such as "What are you making? Oh, you're making a picture of a butterfly! That's nice. How are you feeling? Do you feel like you need to go to the bathroom?"
Ending it sooner rather than later would be good, for sure. Mention this to the teacher and ask her if she could make a point to remind her, or to have an assistant in the class remind her before recess to use the toilet as part of her routine.
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My little sis is always wetting her pants and I am always stuck cleaning her up. How do I get her to stop? My 5 year old little sis is attending kindergarten next year and she is always wetting her pants. I am always having to clean her up. It is so disgusting!!!!! Please help me!
How do I get her to stop?
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| at this age its no long "an accident". if she is awake while this is going on, its laziness, to busy playing to go pee, this is cause for punishment. get a plastic chair for her to sit in. and yes i agree with the above statments ive done this effectivly with my guys. when this happens, she is expecting , no big deal sissy will clean me up.....no!!!! make her feel what shes doing. let her be uncomfortable for up to an hour. then she can clean her ownself up and do this EVERYTIME, shell catch on. and when she does good for a day, the whole day, reward her. and it wont hurt for you to remind her every hour or so, and if she says she dont have to...have her go anyways!!!! now if its at night, it could be a bladder problem, but even a bladder problem shouldnt be a problem during the day. my son is 6 with a bladder problem and he dont wet hisself while hes awake. |