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Can anyone tell if i am a lesbian? im 16, have very short hair, but i am very pretty, men turn after me on the streets and many of them wants to go out with me. the problem is that im not so popular in my class, and there is a girl who really hates me, and when everyone is talking in class and she knows the teacher cant hear it, only the students she says things like "******* transgender", "she surely must be a lesbian i have never seen her with a guy", and in town if i go somewhere and she sees me with her friends they all start laughing when i pass them, im quite sure she must be telling them things like im lesbian. so tell me, is it possible she knows im really a lesbian, or she is juss teasing me? | She's just teasing you because she has nothing better to do and it makes her feel good when she makes fun of other people. Don't let her get to you...And I'm sure she doesn't know...Unless she has seen you checking out a girl...then she might know. but don't let her get you down, don't give her the satisfaction...
Good Luck! | How can I get a free full background check on each of my parents???? I swear to god I'm so ****** pissed off at my mom! She's lied to me my whole life basically! It could be worse, but still. I've been at my nanny's house with my grandparents and cousin who's 10 yrs old. She and I were looking at pics on the family room wall and she said "I like that dress on nanny when she was at your mom's first wedding"
I'm 14 and my mom has told me my whole life that she's only been married once "to your daddy" BULL ****!!!! I found out she's had a husband named Bill and one named Matthew! AND SHE'S NEVER EVER told me ONCE about how many yrs they've been married (my mom and dad). So god knows!
OOOOH! I can't sleep, I can't eat, I can hardly get on my computer. My cousin kept trying to cheer me up, but her mom's been married 3 times, and had a guy with each husband, lives with 9 cats and 7 dogs, and my mom always complains how SHE can't keep a husband! GOD! I already hated her guts as it was! Plus, I'm the THE anti-prep, and I found out from my grandparents, and her brother and sister, that she was one of those preppy little bitchy teacher's pets, after all these yrs she's told me she was a tomboy and always got dirty and everything. Then she would go on talking about how much she had to clean the house cuz no one else would. That's also bull ****!!!!
sigh. It's bad enough she had a temper and would beat me if I did anything wrong. I swear. I already hated her so much that (I hate myself for saying this) if she died, I wouldn't even give a bull ****** ****! BUT NOW THIS!
another thing, trying to think possitive...I keep saying "it could be worse" but I'm still trying to imagine! I haven't slept the WHOLE time I've been at my nanny's (over a week!) I'm grouchy, bitchy, and mad! PLUS! I'm starting my period next week probably!
AND ON TOP OF THIS! My mom teaches at the high school I'm going into next week as a FRESHMAN!!! I'm so worried about the work! Not the social crap, but the school work. My mom has four guys (hopefully with the same husband my dad) so she can't afford for me to go to college anyway. So I have to save up now.
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE! I need background checks for free and in secret, PLUS something to cheer me up!
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At least my dad isn't abusive...if he's even my dad T________T My mom always told me that she wished she never had me, and she's always asking if I'm lesbian, and if I stuff my bra on top of this pile of ******* bull ****! | | i'm sorry but you cant get free background checks... you have to pay for them. | Should I just punch first then ignore later!? At the start of this year I thought everyone got along yet this ******(Chanel) and her posses decided to make my life hell for no reason at all. It started with her going to the Principal and telling her I had touched her Inappropriately WHICH i DID NOT! I JUST SAID I LIKED HER FRENCH PLATE DUO!.
Then anytime I would try and talk to other people in my class or year she and her posse would Rush over and say"Do you fancy her are you a lesbian Omg you ******* weirdo/freak".
Now the rest of my class suck up to them and anytime Id try to turn over a new leaf they'd just have an attitude problem with me like Eg; "Yeah what do want yeah SO"!....... Its mad because (chanel ) goes up to people and humps people during PE classes etc and they see this and so do the teachers and yet nothings said to her. There's one girl in which I was sure was different and that got along with everyone yet doesn't say anything to Chanel in defensed for me and Ive known her since 1st year.(Class wise) . Sure just yesterday a girl I know i first year came into our class room (She has learning problems etc) and I said was she ok whilst Chanel said to her "Youalrighte there sally whilst doing it in a weird way (making fun of the way she talks"). She told me shewas alrightt and I was messing with her saying can I have some of you're Pizza 2 she laughed andsaidd no way then i asked her if she'd like some orange and she said no. Then Chanel with her big mouth shouted to the whole class IMGG SHE JUST ASKED SALLY IF SHE COULD HAVE SOME OF HER PIZZA OMG YOU ******* WEIRDO IF SHE ASKED ME THAT ID DECK HER!. . I told my parents and the school and when myparentst went down about it(ages ago). stuff was said to them yet it remains the same (hint yesterday). What should I do.? I feel like there anti gayas welll and I have a family friend as well whose gay. Irecentlyy saw gils Isometimess talk to (however they are younger then me and Id like someone my age to talk too.) anyways when I hugged them the principal gave out to me talking aboutboundariess etc yet Channel and posse can do that shi to me!. What should I do? | Look, this matter has been taken to your school principle twice, don't make it a third time and get yourself expelled , suspended or charged by the police for hitting her.
School is a place of learning, not a social club. in a couple of years you won't ever see these people again. Unless you want to earn 5 or 6 dollars an hour like they all will be, when they finish school.
Start being mature by putting your head into your school books and start learning to get good grades, this is your only chance in life too. Otherwise you too will become a mop girl at McDonald's, cleaning puke off floors for $5 dollars an hour.
If you remain hanging out with these girls. | LGBT & highschool drama....? So I go to Christian school. But now it seems that's minor problem. Every LGBT ppl are bullied or faces problem this way or that in ANY school. You know I get that. But thing is I just don't want to be the only one in my class my school. (It's a small popularity school.) I was doing normal with school work, always struggling to see more of ppl like me trying to read what's behind of our ancestors doing when reading history. I can't help but feel leftout. Not the class not the present ppl but more like the history the world and that they-cis straight guys-have future but I might not. Idk. I really don't know. I'm not bullied. I'm left to do what I want to focus more. Teacher especially the principle has always been so generous about it. But here's the bottom line: I'm left alone to do my work. I'm a transsexual. But I don't mind what's on the outside. It's trifle but happening everday. I won't say I'm overwhelmingly stressed. No that's not true if I am forced I have plenty of strength to keep on going. BUT. BUT. Wanting something natural wanting pals who jokes about ******* man who shares the same fantasy about holding hands with their women (I don't mind FTM gays just speaking in my place :-)). The skirts that is not it! It's the talk (and I'm literally screaming here craving to be understood by ppl around me) it's how the same bodied ppl as me talk their decoration them having crushes with boys. It's ABNORMAL. It's sickening. I'm not an ignorant idiot thinking my way is the only way but when I don't get to ******* see ******* interact with brothers I demand insensible things. Getting more aggresive thoughts...
It's not I'm outta control thing, nope. But I sincerely don't know what to do. Principle thinks I'm lesbian cuz I told him I'd love to have a beautiful wife. This is another abnormality this exact situation of me who is teen can't talk to my teacher who is adult openly! Damn how stupid are they? I don't get cis ppl I never did I never will give room for them. (Well like I said. Just feeling emotional. My parents are cis they are willingly cooperative. But bottomline again I can rest under their protection but they CAN'T understand me.)
I can't believe I'm alive in this dreafully dieased body, but what's much more unbelieveable is existance of cis gender ppl. Their existance itself the concept of a human being not doubting their inborn sex, it's not in my brain. Never will. I guess.
Anw I'm spilling things out. Not to have someone listen to me but to spread my idea so hopefully someone who agrees with me pick this up and we could talk. *Shrug* You are welcomed. :-)
Anything curious will be answered with comments or so.
My twitter: BluebirdJay2010
Hater comments I honestly don't know how to react but pretty sure I'll answer with honestly with honest swears that fits their title.
Question: So principle gave me 3 days off to do something anything that I think it'll work. Anything with PASSION. And before this week teachers and parents had a meeting concerning me not showing up in school and not wearing uniforms. (I have fair relationships with my fellow classmates and friends in other classes. It's everything but bullying problem.) I have cameout to my family a year and a half ago, lots have happend after that.
My country law keeps me from starting T yet I'm legally 18 only 20 years with 2~5 month with doctor can have T.
I repeat plz help me but it's really not about the body the outwards.
It's about being with my ppl ftm boys not giggly pretty girls. It's about not missing the sports the funs the excitements with them. Dearly. I want that. This is teenage. It's normal to have that. In order to have that I'm risking suspension possibly kicked out from school too...
I came out (as lesbian but planning to be open entirely) to my homeroom teacher :-) It felt good. To be seen. Really. I doubt her motives are pure she already told me she'd recommend to have her religion but it's not entirely that. She has friends like me. Okay I'm gonna end this writing now. Anyone with or without help, plz leave me a comment. :-)) | | Help with what? I've read this whole long thing twice and I can't find a single question or question mark in it. If you want an answer, then ask a question. I have no idea what you want. | I need help, please answer? possibly bipolar? i dont know exactly whats wrong with me. i think i could have bipolar, but dont wanna go doing self diagnosis because it might be wrong.
I need to go to the doctors but i have a phobia of talking on the phone, therefor cant book an appointment, and im scared of the doctors too.
I wouldnt mind going there if i knew exactly what was going to happen, i mentioned to a doctor before 'my moods just arent normal' he diddnt ask me to explain just said 'oh well thats normal, your a teenager, its hormones' n sent me out the room.
I have been self harming for 3 years, attempted suicide a few times. I do get very depressed at times, and its not fair on my gf coz i end up being horrible to her. Some days i cant even manage getting out of bed, and that has resulted in me not going to school for 3 years.
I also get very angy, have been doing for 5 years, i'll go around hitting things n kicking things and really hurt myself by doing so sometimes.
But i also get exteme highs, ill be dancing around the room, drinking lots of alcohol, sleep with strange men even though im a lesbian.
My moods have been up and down since i was 7. my teachers called my mum into school a few times because they were worried about me.
Basically, im fed up of my moods ******* about and dont quite know how to ask for help, and even then i wouldnt ask until i knew exactly what was going to happen from that point.
Im also anxious about going to the doctor because my mum will end up having to find out and she thinks im happy again.
Im a 14 year old female, but im 15 next month.
ANY ADVICE?
Thank you in advance <3 | You have several symptoms that sound like bipolar. Please try to get the courage to get to a doctor. They are not going to hurt you. It is
better to know the truth.They will ask questions and you must be honest about what you have been doing and how you feel about your
life right now. You can't allow these mood swings to go untreated any
longer because there is a train wreck waiting to happen. It is not a crime to have a bipolar condition. It is like having any other disease
but it has to be treated. Your parents cannot be scared of depression
they also must be there to support you throughout this. You need to talk
to someone who is a professional so they can explain to you what
this condition is all about. You are not alone there are many many
people young and older with the very same problems. When you feel
ready to take that step and go see a doctor you will feel the load is
on someone to get you through. Tell your parents to take you and be
there.for you. They have to know the truth about how you feel. The
truth is you need help. The sooner you get to the doctor the sooner
you get the answers and what oplan is right. They will decide if you
need medication and which is best. My best wishes and prayers to you. | Part one of chapter 1? Please rate from 1 to 10? Chapter 1
So we were all like just sitting there. In that hot classroom. It was silent, like someone had died. Mr. Fay, my homeroom and history teacher, was just staring at all of us. We only had a few days of school left.
Waiting is boring, especially when u know what you’re waiting for is almost a life time away. Well not really a life time, but when you’re in eighth grade that little five minutes feels like a life time.
It was the last Friday of the year, school should have been out days ago. But we had so many snow days, the town was covered in snow for weeks. So there we were, on hot June seventeenth just waiting for field day to begin.
My names Jasmine by the way, just thought you should know that little bit of information. Its always good to know who’s telling the story.
Alright, so we all know the beat to we will rock you right? Yeah probably, it’s a cool tune if you haven’t already heard it. Yeah well, like randomly, this guy Ian Martin, I hated him, started pounding it out on his desk. So the rest of the homeroom does it to. Mr. Fay, he didn’t seem to like care at all. Even though I hated that stupid guy, I pounded out the beat too. Then Mrs. Spanish teacher ladies class came in and started doing it to.
I don’t know the Spanish teachers name, I take a reading class instead. But yeah, she’s like really pretty and stuff. Her daughter, who just graduated high school, was so ******* hot. I was like “whoa, holy crap,” when I first saw her. I’m not a lesbian or anything, I just know when somebody is hot or not.
So then Ian starts singing, but he only knows like the first verse and kinda just mumbles the rest. It was so funny.
Then my friend Kevin points out the writing on my arm. He’s all like, “does that say I love crazy gays?” So I’m all like, “um no. It says I love crazy Gary.”
Then Kevin made me tell him who crazy Gary was. Crazy Gary, is my uncle cousin thing. He’s like my moms cousin, or nephew, or something like that. He was the coolest. He use to blow things up and get us all lost in the woods and stick cigarettes in his ears. He was a pretty chill dude.
Finally the head lady of the school came over the intercom and was like, “all eighth grade students report to the gym.” So we all like trampled out of the classrooms right? Well so I get down to the gym, and I’m looking for my friends. Then I see him, the one, the only, the famous Drake Millton. I like ran over to him and yelled, “hey drake!”
I should have known that he isn’t good in large crowds and that yelling probably wasn’t gonna be a good idea. He spun around so fast and just like stabbed me with his pencil. I was like, “dude ouch. HI EMMA! HI ROSE!”
See how fast I change subjects? Yeah, I bet you’re all like, “dude why are you even writing, you suck. Go back to school.” Well guess what. I have reading and writing disabilities. At least I’m trying. Why don’t you go back to school for being such a failure.
“Hey Jasmine,” Emma said. Then that stupid ******** stabbed me again. Yeah I just said ********. Its Drakes word. I loved it. I used it all the time.
“Dude what the ****?” I asked as I pushed him. Then the butthead stabbed me again!
“Go away Jasmine,” he said and started blowing on me. I started laughing. Drake was like a big brother to me. Yeah we fought like all the time, and every time we saw each other we would be mean, but isn’t that what siblings are suppose to do? Secretly I wished he could be my real big brother.
So field day was really stupid. We walked around the track for like an hour then went back to classes. Isn’t that a fun way to start the day? No it isn’t, get out. Yeah I also say get out a lot. I don’t understand why people leave when I tell them to get out.
(the writing style is suppose to be like that, i made it that way for a reason. thanks) | i love that !
but just some constructive criticism.. i think in the beginning you rush a little much to introduce everyone, just take a deep breath and slow yourself down a bit. and maybe switch the seventeenth to a little later, my school ends this wednesday.. so perhaps the 28th, for that dramatic essence, but all in all your on your way! good luck with your writing! | What I have of chapter 1? Chapter 1
So we were all like just sitting there. In that hot classroom. It was silent, like someone had died. Mr. Fay, my homeroom and history teacher, was just staring at all of us. We only had a few days of school left.
Waiting is boring, especially when u know what you’re waiting for is almost a life time away. Well not really a life time, but when you’re in eighth grade that little five minutes feels like a life time.
It was the last Friday of the year, school should have been out days ago. But we had so many snow days, the town was covered in snow for weeks. So there we were, on hot June seventeenth just waiting for field day to begin.
My names Jasmine by the way, just thought you should know that little bit of information. Its always good to know who’s telling the story.
Alright, so we all know the beat to we will rock you right? Yeah probably, it’s a cool tune if you haven’t already heard it. Yeah well, like randomly, this guy Ian Martin, I hated him, started pounding it out on his desk. So the rest of the homeroom does it to. Mr. Fay, he didn’t seem to like care at all. Even though I hated that stupid guy, I pounded out the beat too. Then Mrs. Spanish teacher ladies class came in and started doing it to.
I don’t know the Spanish teachers name, I take a reading class instead. But yeah, she’s like really pretty and stuff. Her daughter, who just graduated high school, was so ******* hot. I was like “whoa, holy crap,” when I first saw her. I’m not a lesbian or anything, I just know when somebody is hot or not.
So then Ian starts singing, but he only knows like the first verse and kinda just mumbles the rest. It was so funny.
Then my friend Kevin points out the writing on my arm. He’s all like, “does that say I love crazy gays?” So I’m all like, “um no. It says I love crazy Gary.”
Then Kevin made me tell him who crazy Gary was. Crazy Gary, is my uncle cousin thing. He’s like my moms cousin, or nephew, or something like that. He was the coolest. He use to blow things up and get us all lost in the woods and stick cigarettes in his ears. He was a pretty chill dude.
Finally the head lady of the school came over the intercom and was like, “all eighth grade students report to the gym.” So we all like trampled out of the classrooms right? Well so I get down to the gym, and I’m looking for my friends. Then I see him, the one, the only, the famous Drake Millton. I like ran over to him and yelled, “hey drake!”
I should have known that he isn’t good in large crowds and that yelling probably wasn’t gonna be a good idea. He spun around so fast and just like stabbed me with his pencil. I was like, “dude ouch. HI EMMA! HI ROSE!”
See how fast I change subjects? Yeah, I bet you’re all like, “dude why are you even writing, you suck. Go back to school.” Well guess what. I have reading and writing disabilities. At least I’m trying. Why don’t you go back to school for being such a failure.
“Hey Jasmine,” Emma said. Then that stupid ******** stabbed me again. Yeah I just said ********. Its Drakes word. I loved it. I used it all the time.
“Dude what the ****?” I asked as I pushed him. Then the butthead stabbed me again!
“Go away Jasmine,” he said and started blowing on me. I started laughing. Drake was like a big brother to me. Yeah we fought like all the time, and every time we saw each other we would be mean, but isn’t that what siblings are suppose to do? Secretly I wished he could be my real big brother.
So field day was really stupid. We walked around the track for like an hour then went back to classes. Isn’t that a fun way to start the day? No it isn’t, get out. Yeah I also say get out a lot. I don’t understand why people leave when I tell them to get out.
Our classes were shortened right, cause of field day. I don’t understand why we even had stupid bum classes. So first I had math right. I hated algebra, I still hate it actually. Its stupid. I just sit there and then the numbers and letters blend together until it looks like Spanish, the class I don’t take.
Mrs. Mel was talking the hole time about how she was gonna miss us and how this year was the best year she’s ever had.
I wasn’t paying attention of course. Instead I was writing my weekend schedule on my hand. Call Anna, call Mandy, call Jonas, stalk Drake, go to Mary’s, go to Anna’s, tell Manboobs he needs a bra.
Yeah Anna, was my cousin, I didn’t see her much because she lived like forty-five minutes away. Mandy, the beautiful amazing Mandy that I wouldn’t call. I would get to nervous and forget her number like I always did. I wouldn’t call Jonas either, I loved him, he had been my best friend for years, but then he kissed me and moved the half way across the country. Stalking Drake was easy, I did it everyday. Mary was my sisters friend Hannah’s mom. I got along with Mary and Hannah. So I was always invited to all there parties. We already went over Anna, I was going to her fathers day party on Sunday | | Not really alot of adj. or ways to relate to the characters, and you do say Like alot. Also swearing doesnt make a book =P I dont mind it, but i think ppl are more inclined to read if you arnt swearing throughout it | My REALLY Creepy Behavior? i'm at age 14,and I act like a ******* retard -- i act perverted, creepy,and most of the people get this idea that i'm bisexual,or lesbian (i'm actually straight). i also act really immature,and guyish. everyone always goes at me like "why do you act like that?can't you act normal for one day?" and these few people told me that i'll never have a serious relationship or a future if i don't change my behavior. i had a total of three boyfriends,and ALL of them broke up with me because i was being too guyish & foolish. i even had to transfer schools,because i was being so rejected for the way i acted (foolish,inappropriate&perverted). i got in trouble in school so many times for acting perverted,i got suspended once in middle school,sixth grade,and once in '10 November,freshman year, for using really inappropriate language and being a pervert. mostly everyone in my grade thinks i'm a lesbian,and they think i'm a dumbass,because all i can talk about is sex. but i CAN'T possibly control it,since the words just run out of my mouth. i'm actually pretty intelligent; i'm good at literature,world languages,culture,religions,human body,music, politics,movies,art.. but people think i'm a dumbass. there are specific people in my school,that i have SAME interests with. they are pretty smart,but they don't want to talk to me,because they think i'm the stupidest guy ever. this is my first year in high school,yet i'm ALREADY rejected & a complete loner. i don't really care about my social life,but i DO care about my future--how will i find a job&how will i communicate with my co-workers,if this habit doesn't go away?! also,i keep getting caught in classes for being a creep,and getting in trouble by teachers. i also hate how people find me stupid,and i have to deal with their spit everyday.
sooo..any advice..? thanks. | It takes a lot of effort to watch what comes out of our mouths, but its a sign of great inner strength to do so.
And it comes very naturally to some, and others have to learn this.
We really can NOT just say any flippin thing we are thinking. Unfortunately, life will teach us this the hard way.
how?
One day one of those foolish things will cost you your job, or reputation will be tarnished in an entire community...and with facebook? Reputations are hurt faster than lightening.
Is having sexual comments even appropriate in today's society? At age 14? Were you molested or experience a home with no personal boundaries? ( people come in and use toilet while you shower, or visa versa )
I just wonder because sometimes people think about sex a lot who have had these experiences .
Fourteen is a promiscuous age anyway, and sex is really on your minds right now, curiousity is overwhelming. You're online right now, so I bet you could "google" how to be mature acting, and study those ideas. Watch movies of young women acting "appropriate" in public and copy that behaviour. ( it may feel like pretending , but it will feel real after you have done the new behavior for a time ) let your hair down in front of others carefully. Some behaviours that don't work for you , you may need to toss away. How have they served you so far?
One thing is for sure, I can never see you treating someone the way you've been treated so far. I see you being a patient and caring example for another who comes along, acting " foolish and immature" one day. | How to solve a LOT of problems in life? I am 14,5.
I have a ******* lot of problems, and I will be thank-full for even one answer.
Now, I'm in a class with a guy that keeps bullying me. He is strongest one in the whole school, and he threats me. I cannot do anything, and I don't like idea of telling teachers/my parrents. So dont say i should!!! Is there anything i can use from my house, nor can i make some type of homemade weapon/taser? I need that QUICK.
Second problem may sound a bit crazy and sick (I am not a lunatic)
I fell in love with an actress from my country. Not only i can never meet her, but she is a lesbian. What to do?! | hmm... the only weapon I can think of is pepper spray. Can't really help you in that but acting like a lunatic and I don't mean crazy lunatic. I mean psycho lunatic. That might get him off your back. Well that's how I dealt with mine anyway.
About that second problem of yours? You should say goodbye to that. Besides, she's a lesbian. Even if you do get to meet her someday, she's not gonna turn straight for you babe. GET YOURSELF A GIRLFRIEND!!!! Go out on a date or something! | Why is this so I don't get it.? I hate going to my school I couldn't wait to join my local high school now I cant wait to leave the guys in it are as common as muck and The teachers constantly have their favorites. Like for instance My parents have constantly gone up to the school about my bullying and they have stuff to the bullies yet it still continues. My mam really cant understand though how these guys aren't ex-spelled and my parents well why should you move schools because of these bastards. I'm in transition year now and like al the knackers that cause trouble in the school have been put in beside me. Rumors constantly started at the start that I wa looking up a girls dress in drama(total lie) and that I touched a girl inappropriately.(again total lie). Then the words freak and weirdo where constantly used (I suffer with depression /self harm before I went in there and seeing a councilor).(Still not that great of help).(even tried antidepressants no help there) Anyways then the whole thing started recently of "Oh Ill kick ur ******* face in etc". Straight after me telling the principal and them speaking to the bullies having previously telling them off for the whole "Are u a lesbian do u Fancy her EW" thing. I don't know what told o as my parents won't let me change schools. AI have no friends and have joined lots of different clubs and nothings worked. I've even thought Myself and another girl in my class would have gotten along instead she started saying that I said to her that she had not **** which is a complete lie all because she wants to be a part of the in crowd. ? | | You are not alone,many face the same challenges.The bullies seem to thrive,and then if you fight back,many teachers will blame you.It is hard to persevere but you must. If the chance come for a confrontation with one of these bullies,you must take it if you think you can make an example out of this particular bully. Watch carefully,you must try for the one you can overcome. I know this seems hard,I'm speaking from experience. Good luck,stay aloof and wait for you chance,mine came. |
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