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My older boyfriend wont stop looking at porn and i told him it's hurting me....what now? Ok, for starters I'm 25 and he's 34, the last year our relationship has been very strained due to my wanting sex and intimacy and him not giving me the time of day. I understand that he was single for awhile and would look at porn just like most single guys would, but we've been together for over 2 years now and he just started the whole porn thing up about 8 months ago. When we first started dating we were in bed all the time and he couldn't even been the same room with me without a *****. after a year it went down to a couple times a day, then a few times a week, i was still happy with that, i knew the honeymoon period doesn't last forever. Now for the last 6-8 months he has stopped paying attention to me, sex only happens a few times a month if that, and sometimes he can't even keep it up when were in bed, and he looks at porn all the time, not just any porn but the teen jail bait stuff. I haven't changed, no weight gain, no changes in habits, no loss in sex drive, still doing everything in my power to be kinky, to dress up everything. So the other day i find his hidden porn folder on the computer, the promise i had him make when we first started dating is that he would never hide it, when i confronted him he said he was hiding it from our roommates (who never use this computer) so that was a complete lie. So i write him a 2 page letter telling him EXACTLY how much the porn is hurting me and how much he's hurting me and put in the hidden porn folder, he reads it, prints it out and comes to talk to me about it. The only thing he says to me is "you don't look old and your not fat" and that's it, no I'm sorry, no I'll stop, or even I'll try, just your not fat and old. He's still looking at it, didn't delete the folder, just doing what he always does, smothers me with artificial attention for a few days to smooth things out and continues on his merry way. It would be only a slight discomfort to me if he was still looking at the porn but our sex life was still normal but its not, so what now? Where do i go from here, i love him but the grief that this situation is causing me is bad for my health, i have a heart problem and the stress from this is becoming to much, so what do i do? I feel like its a damned if i do damned if i don't kinda thing, I'm at a loss.... | | Well he's obviously got an addiction to porn and your just not doing it for him in his mind cause it is being perverted towards women and is missing the point of love and sex. It's not your fault though, so remember that. | How do I confront my boyfriend about his interest in gay porn & crossdressing? I have been with my boyfriend for 9mths now. We have been living together for 6mths. Back in February I discovered a craigslist posting of himself in the M4M (men for men) section. It was a picture of just his *** wearing one of my tank tops and advertising that he wants some action and he likes to be on bottom. I confronted him about it and he said he was just curious about posting himself to see if he got responses. He claims he received none. I told him if he was curious that I would be fine with him exploring and he refused the idea. A few months later, I caught him trying on a dress of mine. I got upset because he ripped it, but again, I got over it. Now, just yesterday, I discovered the extent of his curiosity back in February...he had loads of pictures of guys' ***** (teen, older, white, black, skinny, fat) in a picture viewing program (not saved because he always deletes his browsing history). I also found the other pictures of himself from the night of his ad posting, though his face was never visible. I have had several of my friends cautiously ask me if he's gay and I have always wondered if he is bi. This whole idea that gay porn turns him on, him wearing my clothes and him even going as far as posting an ad in craigslist has me feeling uneasy. So my question is, how do I approach this? Is it even worth worrying about? Oh, and about our sex life; he is always trying to initiate things and we have plenty of sex. So I am thoroughly confused.... | | LOL, don't yell at him, he'll hit you with his purse. | Wtf??? Is this really happening? I had an argument with my BF this morning because he doesn't care to have sex as often as me. I keep asking for more but I get nothing. Sex maybe once a week! I was at work he was still at home and he said I just got f***ed two days ago why do I want it again. He knows I love sex! I cae home and found his masturbation crap in the toilet, he didn't even flush!. He won't have sex with me but he will masturbate! He made me feel like I should be still satisfied from two days back yet he had an itch and scratched it himself, and probably to his teen porn! I'm not fat or ugly, I'm the complete opposit. I'm tired of feeling like I'm not good enough for him, maybe it is time to end this 3 yr relationship. Help.... | | If you have a higher sex drive than he does, then just masturbate when you feel horny. It's not entirely unheard of for women to do it, too. If you actually love the guy, sex isn't something to end the relationship over. Don't let a few moments of pleasure affect your major life decisions. | Porn & a relationship? We've been together 5 years. 1 baby. He talks of marriage. But I don't like his porn habit. It's so sneaky (while I'm sleeping, showering, away) If I ask him what's he's been up to, he outright lies. Yes I snoop, we both do. It's always teens, or 20's. We're both in our mid 30's. I've gained weight but still work out to get it back off, and even when I was in super shape from stripping, it was always young girls on the web. In the time we've been together, we've both gained weight, and he's fatter than me. His porn habit has me feeling angry, hurt, fat, old, ugly. We've talked about it. He says it's an addiction. And that he won't make any promises! And I've tried the tit-for-tat game, dressup, etc It doesn't work. He doesn't care what I do online as long as I'm not chatting or something like that. I can't cancel the internet, because I'm doing online schooling. But I want him to stop. Of course he won't look at porn with me, I've tried. I have no family and I'm not sure what to do | I don't believe people should stay in relationships that make you unhappy and make you feel bad about yourself.
If you can get some counseling to help with your self-esteem problem and maybe you'll realize you really don't want him after all. | In a LTR & having porn problems? We've been together 4 years. 1 baby. He talks of marriage. But I don't like his porn habit. It's so sneaky (while I'm sleeping, showering, away) It's always teens, hot young models. We're both in our 30's. I've gained weight from the preg I'm now 143 lbs. at 5'4" 34 DD. but even when I was in super shape from stripping, it was always young girls on the web. In the time we've been together, we've both gained weight, and he's fatter than me. His porn habit has me feeling angry, hurt, fat, old, ugly. We've talked about it. He says it's an addiction. And I've tried the tit-for-tat game. It doesn't work. He doesn't care what I do online as long as I'm not chatting or on some date site. I can't cancel the internet, because I'm doing online schooling. But I want him to stop. Of course he won't look at porn with me, I've tried. Foreplay has long since been over. I don't even get kissed anymore, except occasional closed mouthed kisses. What do I do? | | Just keep going on | Want to know what turns your partners sex drive OFF? nose picking
toe nail picking
feet that smell so bad the paint starts peeling off the wall
gross toe nails
middle aged men who watch MTV teen shows
People who whack off to porn habitually
Fat stomachs
Any others? | rubbing their hairy stomach while foreplay
eating and talking on the phone ( I WANT TO BREAK THE FKN PHONE, JUST DONT CALL ME IF UR EATING!)
doing the Mr. Bean stand while in boxers trying to turn me on. ( you know when they put their legs forward and lean back)
playing with it AFTER we're done (well i know that means i wasnt turned off initially, but it sure does close the gate to a second round) | Guilty Concious... PORN? Ok so I am 15... I have basically been watching porn... I started watching sex scenes on movies then it went to internet porn... I feel really guilty.... I talked to my dad about porn he said that pictures are ok but he doesn't like porn... My mom is 100% against it but I don't think she cares if I watch it... I just feel really dirty when I watch it.... Will I kick this habbit when I am older and not a virgin? It seems like everytime I see a girl on tv like on a comercial or in a movie I gotta look at her *** or boobs.... I feel really guilty... I am not some fat guy actually my parents think I don't do it and they think I am a good guy.. Well atleast I think they think I don't do it... I just feel so dirty all the time... But I get urges to watch it because I am a teen and hormones are crazy like everyone says.. please help me give me tips or your opinion what ever and No this is not my main email I didn't wanna do this on my real email.. | | 100% perfectly normal for you to be going through this phase. | RELATIONSHIP STRUGGLE, ADVICE NEEDED? LADIES, WOULD YOU STAY WITH YOUR MAN IF HE WAS INTO TEEN PORN? HE IS 29 YEARS OLD, WE LIVE TOGETHER AND BEEN SO FOR ALMOST 4 YEARS NOW, OUR SEX LIFE IS OKAY, NOTHING SPECTACULAR, I LOVE SEX MORE THAN YOU KNOW AND PORN IS FINE WITH ME WHEN DONE AS A COUPLE, NOT IN SECRECY ESPECIALLY WHEN IT INTERFERES WITH OUR SEX LIFE BECAUSE HE HAS PLEASED HIMSELF ALREADY, NOT T O MENTION IT BOTHERS ME HE WATCHES THIS AND FANTASIZES ABOUT THESE GIRLS! HE HAS A VERY ATTRACTIVE, THIN SEXUAL GF (ME) YET ITS NEVER ENOUGH FOR THE MALE SPECIIES. HE IS LOVING AND AFFECTIONATE AND SAYS HE WANTS TO MARRY ME, HE IS NOT FINANCIALLY WELL OFF, I HELP HIM ALOT AND HE WORKS HARD JUST DOESNT HAVE A GOOD JOB RIGHT NOW, I GET SO CONFUSED, I AM WORRIED ALL THIS TEEN PORN **** MEANS SOMETHING ELSE, LIKE HE IS NOT REALLY DONE SEARCHING OR PERHAPS I DONT FULFILL HIS NEEDS AND DESIRES???AGAIN, IM NOT FAT UGLY OR SHY (IN BED) TRUST ME, SO WHAT DOES IT ALL MEAN? ANYONE, PLEASE SHARE YOUR STORIES OR EXPERIENCES WITH THIS TOPIC? | It sounds to me that your BF has some serious issues that need to be addressed if he has a thing for teen porn..Teenagers as they.. are barely legal and most have nothing to offer an adult relationship..Most teens are still maturing and confused about things in life and are easily influenced.
If your BF is fantasizing about teen girls It may also be his way of saying he wants you to mimic what he sees in the movies I suggest you do some soul searching also because it seems the two of you have different agendas, He wants or fantasizes about teens and you want a man that fantasizes about you.. Good Luck | Thoughts on partner looking at porn on internet? im 23 weeks preg and i feel fat and insercure about as it is. i caught my partner sneaky looking at teen girls anal on the net, i spazed out, as my baby is gonna b a girl and it just ran alarm bells. as he had a party before i met him with under age girls he swears to this day that they werent invited and nothing happened. he is 31. ive been feeling bad as i wonder have i overeacted? and should i just laxx and let him look? it just made me so mad how sneaky it was and i said to him afta that i would look with him if he needs that, but should i be worried he is gonna stray? i dont wanna get hurt and im gonna be under stess with a new born. please guys n girls your thoughts???? | Teen porn is legal (the actresses are over the age of 18. Skinny adult women do exist in the world.). Your husband is not breaking the law because the actress are over the age of 18.
There's a difference between fantasizing and actually doing something. Unless your husband actually tried to have sex with a aged minor, then there's nothing wrong with him viewing porn. | Teens: Open mind Survey? non judgful so dont worry :) you may remain annonomous or not, im just taking a poll.
to see how many teens are actually the same, different, and similar to me, etc..
Please answer seriously, & honestly.
What's your name?
Have you ever felt depressed about school? Why?
Have you ever gone through annorexia or bullima? Explain.
How Old are you?
-Things that make you smile?
-Things you're looking forward to?
-Do you prefer calls or texts?
-Favorite day & why?
-What do you do when you're bored:
-Any goals?
-Last thing you lied about?
-What do you think about yourself?
& would you change anything?
When you think of these words what are the first things that come to mind?
skinny?
fat?
porn?
extra terestrial?
God?
mom?
depressed?
girl fights?
over eating?
yellow?
sleeping?
death?
smiles?
thank you so much for your time :) | I hope you don't mind me staying anonymous :)
Have you ever felt depressed about school? Why?
Yep, because of other people giving me a hard time, about a guy I like or just generally feeling like I'm making everybody unhappy or that people don't like me.
Have you ever gone through annorexia or bullima? Explain.
No, I haven't, but I've been through a phase when my parents had a tough time getting me to eat enough.
How Old are you?
15 (turning 16 this month)
-Things that make you smile?
Sunshine, flowers, playing/listening to music, the tv show 'Scrubs' and the people I love :)
-Things you're looking forward to?
Summer after my exams are over!
-Do you prefer calls or texts?
Calls, because I feel like I'm closer to the person when I can hear their voice :)
-Favorite day & why?
Friday, because I can just let go and unwind.
-What do you do when you're bored:
Eat, play/listen to music, go on my computer, watch tv, draw, talk to friends if possible
-Any goals?
To study medicine at Cambridge and make everybody I love as happy as I can :)
-Last thing you lied about?
Told my brother I wasn't doing much, but I am wasting time on my computer lol
-What do you think about yourself?
& would you change anything?
I think I have some good qualities, but I don't consider myself pretty/attractive and I wish I was a stronger and less self-centred person.
When you think of these words what are the first things that come to mind?
skinny? - very thin person with no fat on their body (looking unhealthy)
fat? - sort of cute but chubby person (but not obese)
porn? - woman wearing skimpy lingerie
extra terestrial? - some abandoned place in the wild
God? - clouds/mist
mom? - comfort, love
depressed? - sadness, darkness
girl fights? - cat fights, nails, sharp words
over eating? - comfort eating, stress, obesity
yellow? - sun, fear
sleeping? - comfortable, white, pillow and duvet - bed :)
death? - black, mysterious
smiles? - sunshine, happiness
what about you? :) |
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